People think a soulmate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But, a true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back. The person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A soulmate’s purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life. I believe that everyone has several soul mates (friends, family, lovers etc), and that it’s not just limited to lovers.